HOW PEOPLE EXPRESS ANGER
The following are some of the behaviours which are used to handle
and express angry feelings:
1. SWALLOW
You ignore your anger,bury it and stuff it inside. You may not
Even now you are feeling angry.
2. MASK
You deny your anger and don’t show how you are feeling. The
Angry feelings burn inside until you can get back or get even.
3. EXPLODE
You blow-up and vent your anger by yelling and blaming
Others.
4. DISPLACE
You hide your anger and then dump it on another person or
Something else later on,
5. BULLY
You use your anger to intimidate,hurt others and get your own
Way.
6. EXPRESS
You talk to the person about how you are feeling and what you
Are angry about it.
HOW DO YOU CHOOSE TO EXPRESS YOUR ANGER?
ANGER AND….
The feeling of anger is usually connected to other underling
Emotions. To defuse and understand a person’s anger it is important
To recognize and acknowledge these emotions.
Upset put-down
Irritated insulted
Annoyed
Mad overworked
Furious stressed out
Discouraged vengeful
Frustrated resentful
Fed-up bitter
Unappreciated taken advantage of
Unrecognized used
Unimportant unfairly treated
Dismissed embarrassed
Ignored humiliated
Alone intimidated
Left out
Excluded discouraged
Let-down
Stuck disappointed
Confused
Threatened
Worried anxious
Afraid impatient
Insecure suspicious
Nervous mistrustful
Doubtful
Surprised
shocked